Last night I went to the Sussex Business Scene networking event at East Grinstead and actually enjoyed myself. As someone who can find it a bit daunting to go into a room where I may not know anyone, and make conversation, I wasn't sure whether I would. But I needn't have worried - there were a number of familiar faces there, everyone was very friendly, plus we had what was for many of us our first taste of 'speed networking'.
I'd heard about speed networking before, but couldn't really see how it could be classed as networking. The idea is that you have 30 seconds to tell someone who you are and what your business does, then they do the same, then in the last 30 seconds you have a chance to ask/answer questions. The organisers told us we should say 'what we're looking for', but I certainly found the Q & A was a more natural consequence of the initial 'telling'. After that, you move onto the next person. We did that 20 times.
On the whole it was exhilarating, and there was certainly none of that feeling of time wasting that can creep up at networking events. I could see both pros and cons to it:
Pros:
- It's a great ice breaker and can take the fear out of talking to strangers. Everyone's in the same boat, a bit bemused, ready to 'give it a go'.
- We did all get to speak to more people than we might have ordinarily, especially those of us who shy away from the idea of working a room.
- Although we only had a short time with people, of the twenty I met there were at least 2 or 3 I had some synergy with in terms of business, and they were all interesting.
- With the time limit, it focuses you and you have to be concise.
- ... or put another way, no-one is able to go on at length!
Cons:
- The situation is unnatural, so it may not be easy to relax and be yourself
- Conversation and the the finding of synergies depends on a certain amount of social lubricant - chat that doesn't necessarily involve talking about business - but speed networking doesn't encourage that
- People do business with people they like and trust, and obviously that won't happen in 90 seconds
To be fair though, the facilitators did say that this was just a preliminary, and that the speed networking merely helps you identify the people who you'd like to then have a proper conversation with afterwards.
It is something I would happily do again, and although I was sceptical before I would recommend it now, especially to networking newbies.
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